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Talk dirty to her…

Silence should only be in the bedroom due to a gag or tape.  Extreme?  Maybe, but it gets your attention.  There is much to gain by speaking up with your partner before, during, and maybe most importantly AFTER sex.  Communication is key to unlocking that chest of toys you have in mind!  Discover how to open up and unleash your own inner desires by coaxing your partner to unravel in your very capable hands. Making this magic happen takes just the right verbiage!  

Compliments and Commands…

Sex is as much mental as it is physical.  The way to ensure that toe curling extraordinary pleasure you want for her each and every time is by first awakening her mind.  You can help her find that bliss in new and creative ways by aiding in clearing all those inhibitions and hindrances that hold her back!

Before you leave for work…  “You look sexy as hell today.  How am I supposed to concentrate?”  

As you work your way down her body…  “Your scent is intoxicating.  I want to be inside you.”

While your licking her to the peak of pleasure...  “Play with those beautiful tits for me baby.”

Taking her from behind…  “Your ass is so sexy up in the air like this.  I’m going to fuck you deep and hard.  Tell me you want it deep and hard now!”

Soft and missionary…  “Wrap those beautiful legs around me and pull me deeper.”

Insecure of her body…  “Baby, I love it that you care…but look at me…touch me…only your body can do this to me.”

Blindfolds to bondage…  “You are gorgeous all tied up.  I think you have seen enough.  I’m going to make you feel as sexy as you look right now.”

As she goes down on you…  “Wrap those sweet lips around my cock.  Look at me,  I want you to watch me lose myself deep in your throat.”  

Giving her control...  “Climb up on me.  Fuck me.  Ride me like the naughty bitch you want to be.”

It’s not just what you say…It’s HOW you say it!

Speaking with the right conviction or rapport is as important as the content.  When you are seeking approval your voice has an upturn or higher pitch at the end.  This leaves you appearing needy and puts the burden back on her shoulders to reassure you as if you’re asking for her permission to continue.  The point of being her dominant and more than capable man is not by seeking approval but demanding her pleasure.  Maintaining an even and confident tone throughout your sexy talk is essential!  As it starts to become second nature take it a step further by adding a  deeper tone to the end of your sentences that will take her all the way home.  A woman knows instantly if you are not confident in your tone or verbiage, and therefore will NOT be confident in what you are doing to her.  This experience is as much for you as for her so don’t forget to enjoy the role you are playing at.  Even some of the most reserved women have a side that they secretly want unleashed and will follow almost anything a confident, sexy, and domineering man commands of them.      

Wrong... “Were you naughty today?  What are we going to do about this?  How bad are you?”

Right…  “You have been bad and I know exactly what to do about it.  Take off only your skirt and panties. Lie face down on the bed and close your eyes.  Relax baby, your sweet naughty ass is going to enjoy every minute of this!” 

No explanation needed…  

Try NOT to explain the detail of what you are doing.  She doesn’t need to feel like a science experiment nor will she relax for you if she suspects you’re reading from a manual.  Your woman may be someone who likes a healthy power exchange and taking turns being the dominant or she may be a tightly sealed bottle of champagne just waiting to pop.  Either way, giving simple and sexy commands is important and will create a build up of anticipation, intensify the pleasure, and make a much more memorable experience.  
“Spread your legs for me.”  “Touch yourself while you suck me off.”  “Climb up here.  Hang on the headboard and don’t let go.”  “Take this off.”  “Leave those heels on.  I want them digging into my ass while I fuck you against this wall.”  “I want you dripping wet for me.”  “Pull your hair back.”  “I’m going to claim every inch of you.  Relax, adjust to me.  Take me deeper.  Tell me to fuck this sexy ass hard.”  “You are mine!”(a personal favorite)…you get the gist!

Always return back to her center…

Reassurance and appreciation are key to the next mind blowing session.  If soft is where you started with her, return there with soothing words of praise.  Don’t lose your confidence and edge but DO make sure she knows her safe place is with you and she is free to give up control to you.  You will be surprised how many layers there are to her pleasure.  It’s endless!!!

After...  “What are you doing to me?”  “That was beyond good.”  “What you do to me…I can’t describe.”  “You amaze me.”  “We will be doing that again…soon!”  “You naughty little girl keeping all of that locked inside.  I look forward to next time.”

P.S.

If you don’t get the response you expected, don’t be offended.  Take it for what it is…you found a line and crossed it, but now you have a reference of where to dance next time.  Before you know it, she’ll begin expecting you to push her limits and routine will become to break the routine!

P.S.S.

As hot as is it for a man to be the master in bed, a woman will melt if you reveal just small peeks of your vulnerability to her.  Only that vulnerability that her arms holding you can erase!  You can save it for before or after to let your woman feel triumphant…but please let her!    

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