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Give him the best head of his life…and love it!

Yes, you will love it!  The best gift you could give your man is a blow job that will be permanently engraved in his mind.  Whether you have never enjoyed giving head or want to add to your repertoire, perfecting your oral skills will take your relationship to heights far above average.  And let’s face it; there is nothing exciting about average!  

A big misconception…

Men are not as simple as women in general make them out to be.  You can easily blow them and make them come without blowing their mind.  Yes, your mouth and hands feel good touching his most sensitive part but in order to make him worship your mouth, you must link up with his mind!  
Men are very visual!  Your ass up in the air with a sexy thong while your mouth is sliding over his cock in a tantalizing rhythm is much better than watching the sheets move.  Make eye contact for several seconds at a time while pausing to tell him how much you are into what you are doing to him.  Set the mood with a dimly lit room, don’t hide in the dark.  Keep your hair out of the way. Tie it back or give him that task of grabbing hold of it as you let him fuck your mouth any way he pleases.  Do whatever you need to feel sexy…dress sexy, shave, wax, tan, work out, masturbate, yoga, hot bath, sensual oils. It doesn’t matter if you truly feel desirable, he will desire you!  Get down on your knees, men love the visual no matter how temporary it may be of your complete submission.  

Wrap your mind around it…

You HAVE to want it!  Don’t assume that he will be happy no matter where or how you are blowing him as long as you are.  If you are sitting around gabbing with your coworkers or other wives about what a “task” it is going down on your man you may as well prepare yourself for a short lived relationship or joining in the “average” percent of the divorced population.  Treat it with just as much passion as you like him to have going down on you.  If you have hang ups with your gag reflex, deep throating, or swallowing, then learn how to get past them.  You have to be almost animalistic about how much you want and need his release.  Milk him of every last drop and love licking him clean after.  Taking him deep and swallowing is key, anyone who says different is lying to themselves.  Wrapping your mind around that fact and linking it to the pleasure you feel when you split his vulnerabilities wide open with the need, love, and passion he will feel for you will be worth every bit of effort you put into overcoming your shortcomings.  Even those of you that find it hard to “get wet” will be moist between the thighs once you give your mind up to the “task”. 

Use good technique and mix it up…

Use everything at your disposal.  His thighs, balls, ass, your tits, saliva, lubrication, your hands (plural), all sides of your tongue, and of course, his soon to be very hard cock.  A good hand job makes for a great start.  Especially if you take that opportunity to admire him, visualize him sliding inside you the way your hand is sliding over him.  If you have enough saliva to keep him slick than use it but don’t shy away from oil or lube. The benefit of a quality lubricant is that it will last for the duration, less distraction.  Compliment him and make sure he knows how much you want his cock by telling him.  Get comfortable with talking dirty and being his naughty little sex slave.  You might start by licking him erotically from base to tip and rubbing your soft lips around the rim of his head.  Once in a while get him going by grabbing his shaft firm and down low (but don’t squeeze). Angle him upward so that he can see the underside of himself. Look him in the eye and run the underside of your tongue across his frenulum by licking your top lip with a slight flutter action.  When you sink your mouth over him, create a good rhythm by mixing and building your speed.  Start with several slow and a few faster strokes then increase speed as you go.  If you like a formula you might do five slow and one fast, then four slow and two fast, until you are at five fast and then start over.  Build him up a few times to create the anticipation but also know his limit, too much buildup can easily turn into frustration. Use your hand as an extension of your mouth and use good pressure but don’t think it replaces taking him deep.  You might position yourself so that he can finger you, or so that you can make a show out of touching yourself.  Men absolutely love it when you are “wet” for them.  Don’t forget his balls.  This is perfect for a break in the jaw action.  Lick them, take them gently in your mouth and suck lightly, massage them with one hand while you lick under and around them.  Torture his taint with a smooth swirling motion.  If he will masturbate while you tend to his balls it is very erotic to watch and the best indication to the tempo and pressure he desires.  Use your breasts, no matter the size, lube them up, let him fuck them, rub them on him.  Massage his thighs, grab his ass pulling him deeper, push him into your throat, moan and moan some more.  Let loose and enjoy pushing the limits of your comfort zone.

Deal Breakers…

1)Underestimating the fact that he will know if you are not enjoying what                   
    you are doing.  
2)Not too soft and not too hard...pay attention…read your partners body                    
    language, you will be able to tell if he wants more or less friction.
3)Silence. Speak up don’t be coy!
4) And most importantly NO TEETH!

The point of no return…

Once you have built him up and can feel his cock hard and starting to surge, DO NOT slow down.  If you have any doubts he has reservations, replace your mouth with your hand at the same pace for just long enough to tell him “you want his come now!”  This is also the time to make sure you are “all in” mentally and his come is the last source of nutrition on earth that you cannot live without!  If you can take him deep in your throat you will be past the taste glands and the swallowing action will give him a little extra pleasure.  Swallow every bit, and once he has emptied himself in you, soften your hold slightly, and end with a slow even rhythm.  Wait for a signal before you break contact, and don’t forget to send it home with appraisal.  Some men who are more into erotica like it when you play with a little bit of their come in your mouth.  Maybe letting a bit of it drizzle down your chin and over your chest, and making a show of swallowing that last drop.  No matter what his or your fancy is, the most important part is to have fun with it!

The element of surprise is your best weapon…

Add variety in every fashion.  

The location…take him in the car, the theater, a hand job at dinner as foreplay, your bedroom, the shower, just outside your door, anywhere tasteful.  Public places make for fun erotica.  

The time…surprise him by stopping by his place or an unexpected visit to your husband office, lunch break and just sink down, blow his mind, and leave with a wink. 

The technique…use all of the above, just one, a mixture, your own special move, the key is to break routine.  

The position…get creative, down and dirty on your knees, tie his hands and don’t let him touch, let him grab you and set his own pace, lie on your back with your head draped over the side of the bed and let him watch your throat expand as he pushes his cock deep.  

The rest…relax, get naughty, maybe start with an enticing wager for your services or complete a fantasy for him by role playing.  Have a few drinks, try some new positions, and be prepared to feel a much higher level of confidence and appreciation for your sexuality.  

You will love it…and he will love you for it!!!

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